I have been talking with and met a khmer girl. I met her family the last time I was in the country and got permission from her parents to be her boyfriend which I believe is the custom.
I am 56 (today) and she is 33/34 never been married.
Things got a little heated today and during the course of the argument she said there are many that love her and the first to ask her parents to marry her she will marry. I
I asked her if that meant she has more boyfriends than just me and she was evasive and kept quoting following culture.
I am supposed to be travelling to Cambodia next week for her sisters wedding, and the plan was that we would get engaged after her sisters wedding.
Totally confused now, the argument itself was over european views on getting engaged and she got frustrated because she didnt understand what I was saying after multiple attempts to explain. Her forever goto response is we should split and I should find somebody that understands her.
the sad thing is we get along really well, and when we are together we really click and have good feelings.